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A sofa’s love story with India

By Mythri Tewary 
Every few months, the internet rediscovers an old gem, sweeping the entire social media with its catchy wave. Recently, so it happened with Fevicol’s unforgettable jingle,  “Sharma ji ki dulhan”, which found its way back to the spotlight. Clipped, shared, reeled and memes across social media this jingle has struck again its chords with a massive audience, regardless of age who just cannot resist humming it along. At first glance, it seems regular, just a comic sketch of an advertisement about weddings and guests and a sofa that never breaks. But, wait, stay a little longer. You will see it unfold a story, a beautifully woven layered tale of India. You will feel it resonating because this is not merely an advertisement about glue, it is traditions passed down, it is love found in unexpected places, it is a society that evolves while still holding on beautifully to its roots, its bonds.
What Does a Sofa Know About India?
Well, Fevicol says, apparently, everything. It marked its diamond anniversary in 2019, by unveiling none less than a jewel in its art form as an advertisement. On the surface, it is a lighthearted, almost absurd and a deceptively ordinary story about a sofa that refuses to break, passed down through decades from one household to another, evolving through. Most furniture would have broken, discarded, or quietly replaced as most habits, culture, traditions and beliefs while this sofa remains intact. It becomes a silent witness of generations, of laughter, of celebrations, quarrels, but most significantly change. Being not merely an advertisement of Fevicol, it endures, in its own playful way, a miniature social history of modern India, not just by a glue but the stories of people who sit on it. 
The Sofa as a Silent Witness
The genius of the ad lies in its central metaphor, a mute witness to the passage of time, the sofa. It first arrives at Sharmaji’s household through an arranged marriage. And thus the sofa without much thought in being given a name, maybe by the woodwork on it, or the type of wood used, or any such artistic detail, is but fondly called “ Sharmaiiyan ka Sofa”.  The setting, modest, simple and traditional, just like we all know a ‘Sharma Ji’. The sofa becomes the part of the domestic fabric of family archetype known and recognised by every Indian, the dependable, aspirational, flourishing and respected Sharma household.
It is then passed on to a Mishra household, most probably as can be inferred, that Sharma’s daughter has been now married to a Mishra, who along with her takes the sofa as an heirloom. At the Mishra residence, the sofa is refurbished, with new covers and placed in a surrounding that seems a little more prosperous. This shows how with growing aspirations the fabric of the society too gradually changes. The sofa too is promoted to being  “Mishraiiyan ka Sofa”. 
From Sharma to Mishra, and now reaching the Collector’s bungalow, the sofa finds itself an elite address, a new cover, an exceptional upgrade. It now wears not only a new fabric but a new title, something different, something more than just a surname since the Mishras attention to education and support bore fruits in the form of their child becoming a ‘collector’ and the sofa to “Collectoraiiyan ka Sofa”. These transitions mark not only the endurance of the sofa but also the upward mobility of India’s middle class, growing along generations.
The Collector’s daughter enters with a twist, turning the generational wheel to a whole different side. Although the moment seems subtle, almost very casual with the flow of the song but leaves behind an implication rather striking. Unlike all her predecessors, she chooses to enter an arranged marriage setup rather chooses her choice, love. She marries a Bengali man, still carries on the heirloom that remains unbroken even though a jolt seems to shake the traditional Indian society. From marriages arranged by families, to partners and unions chosen by an individual, from rigid notions and age long practices to fluidity in matters of negotiations, identity, marriage and life, the sofa becoming “Bengalan ka Sofa” saw it all. It rather, although being old, is reliable and sturdy and soaks in it this change without resistance, without even a little fracture in its structure. It becomes a symbol of continuity, an epitome of transformation, of bonds that are built, adapted even as the world alters around them. Simply stating it absorbs the evolution without losing its core, precisely what Fevicol aims to drive home, a bond unshaken, lasting through generations without change.
The charm of the ad leaves an imprint right from the first listen. It feels like a comic folk song that each of us are familiar with, guests piling onto sofas, overheating at weddings, families bustling in chaos. It makes us laugh with comfort, a warmth that this humour brings, the depth it holds on the whole. It draws a recognisable portrait of a regular Indian life, where weddings are not personal events but social milestones, satirically where furniture and their strong hold draws an imagery of relationships that are meant to last through all conditions, good or adverse. They point towards the resilience of community bonds, the continuity of rituals as lifestyles transform through this cultural metaphor of a sofa whose frames still hold firm, even as its fabrics change through generations. Just like India itself.
Fevicol has always through its advertisements shown itself to be more than just glue. It has mastered the art of selling bonds. It has showcased earlier, trucks overloaded with people, cows refusing to move, or even carpenters joking about the strength of fevicol calling it “fevicol ka jod”. Each case the glue itself is invisible but what we actually see is relationships, trust, traditions, stories, and the absurd durability of all these connections.
“Sharma ji ki dulhan” continues this tradition. It tells us that products may be physical, but what we truly buy into is reassurance, is that faith that some things will hold no matter what else shifts around them.
What makes this particular ad remarkable is its sheer refusal to moralise. Along the lines of following traditions, there comes a turn where the Collector’s daughter decides to marry by choice, a love marriage. This is not though shown as rebellion, or framed as rupture, or shown as an event where everything pauses, with her decision being frowned upon. It just is shown as another chapter, a subtle transformation, just another upholstery on the same generational sofa. So does India, it does not evolve by discarding the old, but layers the new upon it, adapts to the new and makes it comfortable, makes it the lifestyle. Surface changes, surroundings evolve, freedom expands, but the underlying bonds remain. Just as the sofa adapts to the new fabric without losing its frame, our society too accommodates and absorbs evolution while holding on to its unshaken core.   
An advertising genius, Fevicol, has turned the absurd stickiness of its promise into a cultural metaphor. The art stays with us, so does the imagery, from black and white to a coloured picture painted, from rustic old tunes to the sharp new chords, and so does the lyrics. It brings in a multi-layered relatability. We have all seen a ‘Sharma’ , have seen our lives upgrade and transform, have seen an heirloom that stays still through generations. Fevicol’s ‘Sharma ki Dulhan’ is funny, but unexpectedly profound. It weaves along with it a tale of India, how slowly, unevenly, it changes, with humour and grace still holding on to its bond, its core. 
Fevicol’s two seater sofa, thus, becomes more than just a prop. It is a story teller, a secret keeper, and a quiet witness to India’s evolutions and revolutions. It carries within its cushions the weight of tradition, a whisper of change, within its core, its frame, a story unchanged, a tradition still alive. It holds families together even as they grow, shift and transform. This is exactly why the ad lingers along even after the jingle fades. It is not just the glue, or the furniture but it rather is us. It is our bonds, our contradictions, our resilience and most importantly our growth.
And perhaps that is the real genius of Fevicol, reminding us, with a wink and a song, that even as the fabric of India keeps changing its cover, some things,like love, laughter, and the ties that hold us, will always stick because “Fevicol ka jod hai, tootega nahin”. 
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Mythri Tewary, a Philosophy postgraduate from Ramjas College, University of Delhi, explores the unexpected stories that everyday culture and objects reveal

Comments

Jag Jivan said…
This is an outright propaganda seeking to promote a particular business house. The author appears to be have been paid by Fevicol to write this piece. Also, the piece goes against Counterview's submission policy.
Editor said…
We are an open forum. Since there is nothing derogatory about the piece, we took it.

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